Sex Therapy

What is Sex Therapy?

Legitimate Sex Therapy is Talk Therapy with an emphasis on sexual topics and issues & is hard to find. Many therapists say that they can work with this subject. However, when the subject presents itself, they are not as open as they need to be to address this part of a healthy relationship. A therapist must be comfortable with their own sexuality to help others, which is not common in our society that considers talking about sex a taboo.

I have been a consistent referral for therapists around the Inland Empire as a sex therapy referral. I have also created the Intimacy Enhancement Program based on my publication “Female Sexuality: The Loss of the Feminine Principle” and extensive work with hundreds of couples to improve their sexual relationship.

Taking it to the Basics of Sexual Disfunction

Sexual issues are rooted in three aspects of a relationship. First of all there are individual issues, such as fear of intimacy or past conditioning that may be contributing to the problem. Secondly, issues with the relationship (such as trust factors or communication techniques) may be the contributing factors blocking successful connection. And thirdly, in the act itself (such as technique, anatomy familiarity or knowledge of the sexual response – to name a few) are responsible for the inability to connect sexually. In addition to these items there are more general aspects such as the Birth/Death/Birth cycle of love and the artful love dance that needs to be understood to find “True Love”, which brings a higher more spiritual experience in the love making process.

Couples tend to think that sex is the only aspect of their relationship that is ‘good’ when in fact a disconnect in a relationship does not stop in the bedroom. Dissatisfaction in the relationship causes dissatisfaction in the sexual act. Ignoring one means you are ignoring the other. The sexual act forbids any uncertainty in the individual, the relationship and even the family situation.
Sex therapy works on all aspects of a person’s life since it is at the heart of our expression of life.

You need to know More …

This is not a one sided topic. While talking about male performance problems and female issues may have their differences, they all interact with one another much like people do in a relationship. Knowing more about the other person is the same as knowing more about yourself and how you interact with your significant other. 

You can rest assured that your trust in my expertise surrounding sexual issues is the same trust that many other therapists have placed in me. Some of the topics I can help you with are listed below and still there are others that talking to me about will help you as an individual and in your relationships. 

Sex
Relationship Issues
Sexual frequency
Passion
Compromise
Debunk myths about sex
Emotional issues
Dynamics
Anatomy
Male and Female differences
Male sexual psyche
Male sexual cycles
Male sexual responses
Female sexual responses
Female sexual psyche
Female sexual cycles
Sex education (what school never taught you)
Tantric sex